2006: Issue 17
Terror and Exhilaration
I sent my youngest off to school yesterday to begin his senior year in high school….a milestone year for sure and for the first time since about first grade, I had the sense he was glad school was starting. Due to a variety of circumstances, he was more idle this summer than previous ones, so he was ready to exercise his mind. Perhaps seeing his friends every day and his girlfriend may have had something to do with his readiness, yet I also sensed in him this fear of atrophy, of loosing what he had worked so hard for, if he didn’t start using it again.
When I was his age, as embarrassed as I should now be to admit it, I thought learning occurred primarily in school, in classrooms with teachers, and that when I was done with my college education, I would be done learning, so to speak, and ready to work, to apply what I had learned. I am not sure when I realized that the education I received in schools marked only the beginning of my learning, but thankfully I did; for had I not, I would clearly be stuck, for without continuous learning it is almost impossible to move forward.
Not long ago, I participated in a tele-class led by Michael Bungay Stanier whose byline reads “get unstuck and get going”. While the chance to get CEUs led me to call, their value is less than the value of my take away message that has jumpstarted me and my clients, as my learning shared generates continuous return. Michael contends as many do that the secret to doing great work is saying no to good work. Makes sense; however, the “gotcha” came with his definition of great work: “the crossroads where terror and exhilaration meet.”
Terror and exhilaration! Combine that with our learning about the brain, and it’s obvious why it is so easy to stay satisfied with good. For the adrenaline junkies, the combination of terror and exhilaration may be very attractive. However, for me and many others I know, the exhilaration part is attractive, but not the terror—heck no. And yet how right he is, and at some point in our lives, we have all felt it and survived it, hopefully to be better for the experience even if it is simply the ability to say I did it.
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