2005: Issue 19
I heard the above quote from a client of mine as we were mulling over the new beginnings in one’s life that often require “letting go”. While doing so, we both instantly realized the more pragmatic interpretation of the quote that so many along the gulf coast are literally living. Perhaps with time they will see what the tide brought them, but clearly for now, it is what it has taken away ... my home place; my pictures; my work; my clothes; my child; my pet; my “everything.”
I resonated with the symbolism in this quote for often before we have room for new in our life, we must let the “tide” take something away. During difficult times in my life when I am struggling to “let go”, I have often sought refuge at the shore. As I walk along, I envision what it is I am letting the tide take out to sea. Perhaps it is a person, yet mostly it has been a thought(s), feeling(s) or a person’s action, all chock full of emotion; emotion that has been sapping my energy, and I am ready for it to stop – I am ready to “let go.”
Most common refrain from medical professionals these days is “it is not like it used to be.” Usually said with a sigh and a yearning. I certainly agree. Yet, I want to remind them they have a choice, a choice to “let go” ...
About those people along the gulf coast, I leave with you one story where a family is already realizing the gift of the tide. A young family that sought refuge with a neighbor’s family in Hatteras, NC, bringing with them an elderly set of parents and their two children – an 8 year old son, and a 3 year old severely handicapped daughter – for whom they have no diagnosis, merely the reality of caring for her with her mentally aware brain, and a body that gives her constant pain. Enter a physician who has said, “unacceptable”, and has lined up an appointment with a team of specialists at a nearby children’s hospital to find answers and solutions ... saying, “don’t worry about the cost, it is taken care of.”
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Taking their learning from 20+ years in corporate healthcare, Janet Crawford and David Scheiderer, MD formed Extra Ordinary Living, Inc. in 2003 with an intention of helping physicians, other healthcare professionals and their organizations identify possibilities and opportunities, remove obstacles, and ultimately, optimize results.
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